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1) THE GIFT OF LISTENING . . .
But you must REALLY listen. No interrupting, no daydreaming, no planning your response. Just listening.
2) THE GIFT OF AFFECTION . . .
Be generous with appropriate hugs, kisses, pats on the back and handholds. Let these small actions demonstrate the love you have for family and friends.
3) THE GIFT OF LAUGHTER . . .
Clip cartoons. Share articles and funny stories. Your gift will say, "I love to laugh with you."
4) THE GIFT OF A WRITTEN NOTE . . .
It can be a simple "Thanks for the help" note or a full sonnet. A brief, handwritten note may be remembered for a lifetime, and may even change a life.
5) THE GIFT OF A COMPLIMENT . . .
A simple and sincere, "You look great in red," "You did a super job" or "That was a wonderful meal" can make someone's day.
6) THE GIFT OF A FAVOR . . .
Every day, go out of your way to do something kind.
7) THE GIFT OF SOLITUDE . . .
There are times when we want nothing better than to be left alone. Be sensitive to those times and give the gift of solitude to others.
8) THE GIFT OF A CHEERFUL DISPOSITION . . .
The easiest way to feel good is to extend a kind word to someone, really it's not that hard to say, Hello or Thank You. Friends are a very rare jewel, indeed. They make you smile and encourage you to succeed. They lend an ear, they share a word of praise, and they always want to open their hearts to us.
１）傾聽……
你要真正地傾聽。不要插話，不要走神，不要考慮如何回答。只是聽。
２）感情……
毫不吝惜恰當(dāng)?shù)膿肀А⒂H吻、輕拍后背、手拉著手。讓這些小小的舉動(dòng)向家人和朋友表達(dá)你對他們的愛。
３）笑聲……
剪切卡通片。與他人分享有趣的文章和故事。你的故事會說：“我喜歡和你一起笑。”
４）手寫便條……
可以是簡單的“謝謝幫助”的條子，也可以是一首完整的十四行詩。一張簡單的手寫便條會讓人一生銘記，甚至可能改變?nèi)说囊簧?/p>
５）贊美……
簡單而真誠的一句，“你穿紅色真好看，”“你做了件極好的工作”或者“這頓飯?zhí)袅耍?rdquo;有可能令人開心一整天。
６）做好事……
每天，不怕麻煩，特意做件好事。
７）獨(dú)處……
有時(shí)，我們會只想單獨(dú)呆著。注意這樣的時(shí)刻，把獨(dú)處的禮物送給別人。
８）快樂性格……
讓自己感覺良好的最簡單方式是對別人說句友好的話，真的，說“你好”或“謝謝你”不是那么難。朋友是珍稀的珠寶，真的。他們給我們帶來快樂，鼓勵(lì)我們成功。他們注意傾聽，與我們分享贊美的話語。他們永遠(yuǎn)愿意向我們敞開胸懷。
